therapy with a professor of lgbtiq psychology.

SEXUALITY and GENDER affirming care

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TIRED OF TRYING TO TRANSLATE YOUR experience to straight, cis therapists?

You may be navigating issues related to coming out, exploring your sexuality or gender identity, or seeking to understand your relationship to queerness. Perhaps you're pursuing gender-affirming care or addressing LGBTQ+ identity challenges. Alternatively, your struggles may have nothing to do with your queerness, and you're simply seeking a therapist who truly understands and affirms your experience.

In any case, having a LGBTQ+ affirmative therapist with specialized training and lived experiences makes a significant difference in creating an environment of community, safety, and acceptance. I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can feel seen, heard, and supported as you navigate your unique journey.

I believe queerness is a superpower.

Your therapy should respect your power.

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Coming to this work as someone who is part of the LGBTIQ community means I can offer something more than some typical training. It means I’m able to hold space from a place of someone who has lived it, being queer in a cisgender, heterosexual world. This lets me come from a place where I can recognize the particular stresses that come with navigating identity in a world that can be dismissive or hostile: minority stress, family rejection, questions about your safety, and the often hard work of figuring out and claiming language for yourself. This perspective helps me notice things that might be missed in a more generic approach and to name systemic pressures alongside personal feelings without pathologizing who you are. That being said, this is only from my lens as a white gay person—I can empathize, but not relate fully to other intersecting identities.

For someone exploring gender or sexuality, therapy can be an experimental, low‑stakes lab setting: a place to try out some words, explore ways to test out some new interests, and imagine changes without changing anything too quickly. We can explore some practical next steps like coming‑out conversations, navigating the medical world, or negotiating relationships while exploring the deeper questions of belonging, shame, and internalized messages that shape how you move through the world.

And for people who simply want to talk with someone who’s also queer, therapy can offer the uncommon comfort of being understood without having to explain or defend basic pieces of your life. This recognition often deepens clinical work so that can grow faster, sharing feel less risky, and your therapeutic goals can be shaped around affirmation. Above all, the aim is to help you feel more embodied in who you are, less isolated in your choices, and better equipped to build the life you want.


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TGNC Specific Care

TGNC care can be focused on identity exploration, coping with dysphoria, and building resilience around minority stress and family dynamics. I can provide practical support for social and medical transition—preparing for conversations, letters or referrals for hormone therapy when appropriate, and coordinating care with medical providers. I also help with skills for navigating systems (work, school, legal name/pronoun changes), relationship support, and community‑building so changes feel safer and more sustainable

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Sexuality Exploration

I offer space to explore attractions, desires, and romantic patterns to help you name what feels true without pressure or labels. We can work on practical steps like coming‑out conversations, dating and consent skills, and negotiating boundaries (while also unpacking internalized messages or shame that affect intimacy). Therapy can pair concrete strategies (communication, safety planning, community resources) with deeper reflective work to explore self‑understanding and support more authentic relationships.

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Queer therapist for queer folks

If you’ve gotten this far, you know s a queer therapist I’m more likely to recognize minority‑stress dynamics queer relationship patterns without pathologizing your identity, and that attunement can make it easier to address your day to day concerns that are not inherently related to queer issues. This way you can get skilled care for your challenges without the emotional labor of educating me and knowing that I understand a bit about where you’re coming from.

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